Newborn sleep for parents who refuse to accept survival mode as normal

The Dreamy Approach Toolkit gives you clear foundations, gentle tools, 1:1 support and something steady to return to as your baby and days evolve.

I applied her tips to my baby and the sleeping issues were solved.”

~ Silvia Laurensia

You wake up already tired

…The kind where your body feels heavy before your feet even touch the floor.

The night was broken. Again.

Maybe your little one woke every hour.
Maybe they only slept in your arms.
Maybe you lay there listening, half-asleep, bracing for the next wake-up.

By morning, you’re moving through the day on autopilot — feeding, napping, rocking, Googling. Wondering if today will be different… and quietly preparing yourself if it isn’t.

You feel like you’re just getting through the day.
The softness feels thinner.
You’re more reactive than you want to be.

And somewhere underneath it all, there’s a quiet worry humming:
Is this okay for them?
Is this okay for us?

You might be telling yourself this is just how it is.
That broken sleep is something you’re supposed to endure — at least for now.
That maybe you’re expecting too much.
That maybe your baby is just “a bad sleeper.”
That maybe the No Sleep Club really is a right of passage.

But… you’ve heard of babies that do sleep.
The mum in your mum’s group who just seems to be passing though the newborn phase like they were made for it.

You might be wondering…
… is this really normal?
… am I doing something wrong?
And maybe feeling guilty, like you’re not being good enough.  

It makes sense.
None of this came with a manual.
And so much of it simply doesn’t come naturally.

I want you to know this: you’re doing amazingly.
You’re an amazing, thoughtful, and intentional parent.
You’re not doing anything wrong.
The fact that you’re here, looking for answers, tells me how deeply you care.
And that instinct you’ve had all along? It was right.

There is another way through this.

You’re not asking for too much — you’re asking for steadiness

You want to support your little one’s sleep and development,
without losing yourself in the process.

You want this stage to feel more like living… and less like survival.

Here’s a secret, I wish weren’t a secret at all… 

When a newborn’s sleep is supported thoughtfully, families can rest far more than they’ve been told is possible — even in the earliest weeks.

“It was really amazing actually how impactful it was.”

~ Holly Menezes

First things first: I’m a mum too.

I have two energetic boys, and I know — personally — how disorienting it can feel when sleep doesn’t come easily. How quickly you can go from “we’ll figure this out” to reacting, guessing, and hoping tonight will be better than last night.

When my first arrived, I didn’t magically “know” what he needed.
I didn’t understand his cues.

I didn’t know how to help him settle, or why some days felt manageable and others completely unraveled.

Hi. I’m Lara.

What changed everything wasn’t pushing harder or following stricter rules.

It was learning how sleep actually works. And how to respond to my baby, in my family, in a way that felt calm, supportive, and sustainable.

Since then, I’ve trained as a certified pediatric sleep specialist and Montessori teacher, and I’ve supported families all over the world. Families who parent in many different ways, but who all want the same thing:

To feel confident.
To feel steady.
To stop guessing.
And to know they’re doing right by their baby and themselves.

That’s the perspective behind everything you’ll find here. 

And why I created the Dreamy Approach

What I like about Lara… is that she's not like a typical sleep consultant… she listened to what I needed as a mother and the dynamics. We reached like a plan or a solution rather than it was just like a one-sided theory. Lara was very supportive at the time, and she was supporting me over WhatsApp whenever I needed. I like how she was talking, her mindset… she was chill. It's OK. We're going to figure things out. She just gave me the vibes, like, it's easy. Don't worry. We're going to fix it.

~ Menna Hany

Introducing…

The Dreamy Approach Toolkit

Tools and guidance you can return to, built on gentle foundations that support better rest — now, and as things change.

Not about perfect sleep. About feeling steady again.

Inside The Dreamy Approach Toolkit, you’ll learn how to:

  • Understand what your newborn actually needs for sleep
    so you’re not guessing, Googling, or second-guessing yourself.

  • Settle your baby calmly and confidently
    without panic, rushing, or wondering what to try next.

  • Create a sleep environment that truly supports rest
    so nights feel safer and more predictable for everyone.

  • Build gentle routines that fit your real life
    even when days aren’t perfect or the same twice.

  • Respond to night wakings without spiralling
    making small, confident adjustments instead of starting over.

  • Adapt as your baby grows and sleep shifts
    without feeling like progress has disappeared.

  • Feel steadier through the ups and downs
    knowing you have something to return to when things wobble.

Because calmer sleep doesn’t just change nights, it changes how everything feels.

I felt like we had a whole new baby — but really, it was us. We finally knew what we were doing.

~ Holly Menezes

What’s inside The Dreamy Approach Toolkit

The eBook
A clear, grounding guide to how sleep works and how to respond calmly and confidently, without rigid rules or guesswork.
You’ll have: clarity, reassurance, and a plan that actually fits your family.

Gentle Sleep Foundations (Applied)
The five essentials (soothing, sleep environment, routines, independence, and daily rhythm) brought into real life, not just theory.
You’ll have: how to use the foundations when things wobble, not only when everything’s “perfect.”

Sample Routines & Daily Flows
Flexible examples to adapt, not schedules you have to follow
You’ll gain: a calmer sense of rhythm, even on messy, unpredictable days.

Planning Tools & Printables
Simple templates to help you notice patterns, make small adjustments, and stop second-guessing yourself.
You’ll gain: confidence in your decisions, without starting over each time.

Bonus: Support over WhatsApp or Email
A place to ask questions, chat and get reassurance when you need it most.

You’ll have: the feeling that you’re not doing this alone.

Bonus: The Dreamy Sleep Plan
A gentle framework for guiding naps, nights, and transitions as your baby grows.
You’ll gain: steadiness — knowing what matters right now.

Everything inside the Toolkit is meant to sit beside you…

not tell you what to do,
not judge your choices,
and not disappear the moment your baby changes.

Just calm guidance you can return to, again and again, as your family finds its rhythm.

You’ll feel at home with The Dreamy Approach Toolkit if…

✅ You’re caring for a newborn or little one whose sleep feels unsettled and you’re exhausted… or you’re preparing for a new baby and want to support sleep gently from the very beginning

✅ You don’t believe months (or years) of broken sleep are a required rite of parenthood

✅ You want help applying gentle sleep foundations in real life, not just understanding them in theory

✅ You want something that works with your family’s rhythm, values, and reality

✅ You care deeply about your baby’s development and your own wellbeing

This may not be for you if…

🚫You’re looking for a rigid, one-size-fits-all schedule

🚫You want a quick fix without understanding what’s actually happening with your baby’s sleep

🚫You prefer strict rules over flexible guidance

🚫You’re not open to gently adjusting and responding as your baby grows

And that’s okay. Different families need different kinds of support.

The Dreamy Approach Toolkit isn’t about doing sleep “perfectly.”

It’s about feeling calmer, more confident, and more supported. Even when sleep shifts, routines wobble, or your baby changes (because they will).

Inside The Dreamy Approach Toolkit, you’ll receive:

✅ The eBook
The full framework you can return to as your baby grows and sleep shifts

✅ Sample routines & daily flows
Flexible examples, not schedules you have to follow

✅ Planning tools & printables
To spot patterns, make small adjustments, and stop second-guessing

✅ Curated recommendations
Fewer tabs. Less overwhelm. Clear guidance you can trust

✅ Personal, 1:1 Support
A space to ask me questions or just talk 1:1, mum to mum. No judgement, no pretenses.

✅ The Dreamy Sleep Plan
A gentle way to bring everything together calmly, at your own pace

Everything inside is designed to support both your baby’s sleep and your confidence as a parent.

Use the Toolkit that meets you where you are right now

€27.00 per toolkit

All toolkits give you the full framework and tools to work through in your own time — with something steady you can return to whenever things shift.

Includes:

  • Lifetime access

  • WhatsApp and Email support

  • 1-day response time 

  • Simple, straightforward answers

Pregnant or babies aged 0-3 months

Perfect if you’re preparing or navigating the newborn stage.

👉 Proceed with the 0-4 Month Toolkit

Babies aged 4-12 months

Best for supporting you and your baby through the next stage of development.

👉 Proceed with the 4-12 Month Toolkit

Still unsure? You can switch anytime - just message me.

My Peace Of Mind Promise to You

Take your time. Read. Try things gently.
If within 30 days you don’t feel more grounded, more confident, or more supported than before, you can request a full refund. No hoops, no pressure.

About Lara

Mum of two energetic boys, certified paediatric sleep specialist (Institute of Paediatric Sleep & Parenting), and qualified Montessori preschool teacher.

I work with families when sleep feels confusing, exhausting, or heavier than it should. Not because they want a rigid plan, but because they want things to make sense.

I’ve supported families across different countries, cultures, and parenting styles — from newborns through toddlerhood. Some parents I work with practise attachment parenting. Others are comfortable with sleep training. Many sit somewhere in between.

What they all want is the same thing:

Less guessing.
More confidence.
Something that fits their family.

My work blends evidence-based sleep science, child development, and real-life application. I don’t believe in one “right” way to do sleep. I do believe that when parents understand the foundations, they can respond calmly — even as things change.

I’m on a mission to help families move away from reacting and second-guessing…
and toward steadiness.

That’s why I created The Dreamy Approach — so you have something solid to come back to, again and again.

“Lara is a very, very like logical person, but also very empathetic. She’s just really, really reassuring and very understanding that every single child is different.”

~ Jess Page

“She just gave me the vibes, like, it's easy. Don't worry. We're going to fix it.”

~ Menna Hany

“It really feeling like we were a team doing it together.”

~ Holly Menezes

“Just the way Lara comforted me… I cannot imagine there is someone like Lara.”

~ Silvia Laurensia

You might still be wondering

  • You’ll receive instant access after purchase. The Toolkit is downloadable to your device or cloud storage, so you can come back to it whenever you need — now, or months from now. It’s yours for life.

  • I have toolkits for both newborns (0-4 months) and 4-12 months. Simply choose the appropriate toolkit. Is your little one 4 months right now? Go for the 4-12 month toolkit.

  • Most parents I work with already know a lot. What’s usually missing isn’t information. It’s help using that information calmly, with their own baby, especially when things don’t go to plan. The Toolkit brings everything together in one place, so you’re not piecing things together at 2am while exhausted.

  • That’s who this was created for. Clear language. Practical guidance. No overwhelm. No judgement. Nothing you have to “keep up with.”

  • Yes. The Dreamy Approach works alongside your values. Families I support practise attachment parenting, sleep training, and everything in between. This isn’t about forcing one method. It’s about understanding sleep foundations so you can make choices that feel right for your family.

  • Exactly. Babies grow. Sleep shifts. Naps change. Travel happens.
    The Toolkit is designed to be something you return to, so you’re not starting over every time something changes.

  • As much or as little as you have. You can move through it slowly, read a section at a time, or dip back into specific parts when you need support. There’s no “right” pace here.

  • That’s okay too. You’re covered by the 30-day Peace of Mind Promise, so you can explore the Toolkit gently and see if it feels supportive for you.

I got more sleep, so I felt more energized, more rested. And my baby is also getting what she needs.

~ Holly Menezes

One final thing before you go…

I know you don’t need pressure, and you don’t need promises that everything will magically fix itself overnight.

What you might need is something steady to lean on. Guidance you can return to when nights change, naps shift, or confidence wobbles.

The Dreamy Approach Toolkit was created to sit beside you through those moments, so you’re not guessing or starting over each time.

If that kind of calm, supportive companion feels like it would help right now, I’d love to welcome you in.

With care,
Lara 🤍

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